Product Overview
Why am I still single?
If youre single and searching, theres no end to other peoples explanations, excuses, and criticism explaining why you havent found a partner:
Youre too picky. Just find a good-enough guy and youll be fine.
Youre too desperate. If men think you need them, theyll run scared.
Youre too independent. Smart, ambitious women always have a harder time finding mates.
You have low self-esteem. You cant love someone else until youve learned to love yourself.
Youre too needy. You cant be happy in a relationship until youve learned to be happy on your own.
Based on one of the most popular Modern Love columns of the last decade, Sara Eckels Its Not You challenges these myths, encouraging singletons to stop picking apart their personalities and to start tapping into their own wisdom about who and what is right for them. Supported by the latest psychological and sociological research, as well as interviews with people who have experienced longtime singledom, Eckel creates a strong and empowering argument to understand and accept that theres no one reason why youre singleyou just are.
