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Powerful. Refreshing. Hilarious. I literally couldn't put it down! The scope and candor of this book cut to the realities of parenting and teaching while offering hope through practical solutions... apure joy to read. Dr. Paul Lewanski, Ed.D., California Teacher of the Year
Counterintuitiveoffers wisdom through beautifully written, and often funny stories, that are accessible to those who are hungry for real answers but want something more than a dry, clinical approach -- and its chapters are short enough for men to read on the toilet before their legs go numb.
Tyler Durman, a former teacher and father of five, has spoken live to more than 4 million teenagers. Referred to as theTeen Whisperer, he uses comedic storytelling to break down barriers and connect with even the most hardened teens. (He also speaks extensively to educators and parent groups.)
This book offers real answers to raw questions about teenagers & pre-teens like:
- How to be the safe place they'll run to when they fail.
- Consequences that actually work, bring growth, and deepen your intimacy.
- Exactly what to say when your daughter (or son) is 'in love' but not mature enough to date, and yells you don't understand - while helping her feel you're on her side and not her back.
- How to motivate a lazy teenager.
- Exact steps to regain control of a home or class that is out of control.
- When to search their room, and how to do it without causing shame or mayhem.
- How to use disrespect and broken trust as a catalyst for a closer relationship. And more...
If you're feeling overwhelmed or at a loss, this book will give you help and hope.
I've watched Tyler take a crowd of 3,200 distracted teens who didn't want to be in the room, and have them eating out of his hand within two minutes. Thiswould be a daunting task for even the most seasoned stand-upcomedian. His abilities and content are extraordinary. Dighton Spooner, Former CBS Television Executive
After hearing him speak, thousands of students have given him a rare window into their lives by confiding things they've never told anyone. This has given him wisdom about the sometimes surprising & counterintuitive things they need & long for from the adults in their lives.
Counterintuitive is an amazing, insightful must read for parents and teachers alike! Myrna Harp, California School Counselor of the Year, CASC
